Hey all! It's been a while I'm away from
blogging. Silence and peaceful mind, I just feel to write something here. I
came across an article title ' The difference between Needing, Wanting and Love
Somebody' which it's really caught my eyes and have a read on it. After reading
it, it somehow clear some of my today doubt.
Having to know, when someone meant a lot to you
have move on another relationship. Well, I'm happy and also I'm Sad. Moving on
is part of the journey when something mean a lot to you is no longer yours.
Some memories buried deep inside me for a while. Don't dare to look back, don't
dare to think, but there will a moment you will heard about something you scare
to hear. Something you can to see and something you scare it will bother you.
I believe most love relationships start out
with a state of wanting. When you fall in love,you want the other person
very, very much. And then slowly, over time, as you love, you also become more
and more accustomed to that person, so much so that you might even feel as
though you can’t live without him or her. This is when want becomes dependent.
It’s when you have become so dependent on the
other person for your emotional and physical demands that you can’t live
properly if he or she disappeared from your life completely. With this person,
you can feel a sense of familiarity and assurance that comes with his or
her acceptance of you. You feel safe with him or her.
At this
moment, it’s unavoidable that you will feel slightly needy because you
just want to feel safe . Even if you were to get back together after he comes
begging at your feet, you might be satisfied for a while, but you won’t stay
satisfied for long.
Because, in the end, he is still not
what you want. He was, but
that’s the past. You loved him, but now, you don’t. Now you feel like you need
him only because he’s part of what that feels familiar. Undeniably, he’s the
safer choice, compared to being single again after such a long time.
After all,
now both of us have moved on. Yet I’m glad I have made the move, because
someone better is in front there waiting for me. If you are reading this, I
would like to say Thank you. Thank you for everything, the sweet memories, your
effort and what belong to us. Blessing for me and my most important man because
I know he deserves a better me, and most important my blessing to you.
Dear my
present, I hope you will be my last and one day we will walk into the aisle and
let me vow to you, no matter how bad is your past experience, I will be there
for you. No matter how low confidence on yourself, I will lend you my
confidence. When you think your world in darkness, I will be your light and
lend you my positives. Because I know and I’m blessed to meet you in journey of
my life. Thank you to be in my new chapter of my journey.
Some things are better late than never
R.K
